I was a member of https://j4l.com for a couple of years. Upon my recent comeback, I got extremely frustrated when I found out my previous matches were no longer available. My preferred age gap is 12-15 years, and I’m guessing 75% of them are gone. Classy women are still out there, though. I’m more into chatting about books and old movies. I have several profiles at my disposal; they are nothing fancy, nothing flamboyant. Forever young is not my case. I’m a real old timer.. Do communicate with designated matches.